A Man named Junno Miranda Sarmiento has posted on his social media account in Facebook about his nephew who decided to kill himself because of loving his girlfriend (ex-girlfriend) too much. Mr. Sarmiento started his post with "Walang Forever" (There's no forever.)
As of this writing Mr. Sarmiento's post has gotten 40,183 shares, with 45 thousand emotes, and 15k comments in which a lot of netizens were saying their prayers for Ricjohn's soul, condolences to his family, relatives, and friends. Some were angry at the ex-girlfriend of the guy for even going to the point of letting Ric meet her new boyfriend. Some were tagging their friends/family members whose going through depression as well.
Read the post below, in case you can't understand there's also a translation below!
English Translation:
"There's no Forever"
Chapter 16 - Mourning to Mourning
Most people feel sad or depressed at some point in their lives. It's a normal reaction of a person who has an on-going loss or has life struggles.
But when there's an intense sadness -- which includes feeling helpless, hopeless, and worthless -- that lasts for many days, to weeks, and even keeping you away from living your life, it might be something more than sadness already.
This is about my nephew's death, it's all about "LOVE and DEPRESSION."
My 18-year-old nephew named "Ricjohn Miranda Singson" was a smart, an alert, a wise, and hardworking guy. He was a 3rd year college student of La Consolation College in Tanauan, Batangas.
December 27, 2017
My nephew asked me "Uncle, what should I do? My girlfriend says she doesn't want our relationship to go on anymore. She said she's tired of it." He even let me read their long conversation on his Facebook Messenger. His girlfriend has messaged him with a very long message about being tired of their relationship, which they started 4 years ago back when they were still high school students.
There was even a point where she blocked my nephew on Facebook and other social media accounts, so my nephew didn't know how to communicate with her and ask her why does she want it to end. My nephew didn't want to end their relationship even though it was hard having a long distance relationship. He still intends to fight for it. However, the girl really fell out from it, probably from being in a long distance relationship.
December 28, 2017
My nephew's mood suddenly shifted, he became downhearted, sad, and stressed. He even became thinner and always stays in his room all day. He is longing for positive words, which his family, friends, and relatives are talking to him about getting through to all of what's happening to him. However, he's not absorbing the words at all. All he knows and believes that he and his ex will get through to this phase in their lives and eventually get back together and be with each other again.
January 28-29, 2018
My nephew's ex talked to her again with "I'll introduce you to my new boyfriend."
That's where it all started. My nephew became paranoid, and crazy. He's probably thinking too much which caused him to shout aloud with "I'M NOT A TOY!!!!!!"
My nephew called his friends and his close aunt in which he cried so much and poured all his emotions. He said "Auntie, I can't take it anymore, why is she like that? I'm not a toy, why does she even want to introduce me to her new boyfriend? Why does she want me to be reminded of the pain I felt last year?"
Her auntie responded with "I know you'll get through this Ric, There's a lot of woman out there for you, Don't ever try to do what you're thinking right now."
And our nephew responded with, "Yes auntie, I won't do it."
February 1, 2018
There was a loud thud in his bedroom's door around 8'oclock in the evening. His grandfather checked the door if it was open, however it was not, so his grandfather asked my nephew's sibling to ask if his brother is okay.
"Brother, what are you doing?"
My nephew, Ric didn't answered his younger sibling, instead he responded with three (3) knocks on his door, in which his sibling thought that Ric was okay and just doesn't want him to get disturbed, so his sibling went down and said that Ric's doing okay since he knocked.
February 2, 2018
Everyone woke up early since it's a school day, and when it was already their breakfast time, they tried to knock on Ric's door, however it was still locked. They tried knocking the door to wake Ric up, however he didn't budge after a few minutes, so they asked Ric's youngest sibling to check Ric up above because there's a space where you can see Ric in there.
When his youngest sibling checked, his youngest sibling cried and immediately said that Ric is dead.
They found him unconscious with the blanket wrapped on his neck tightly. Everyone cried at the sight of Ric, they tried to revive him, however it was too late already.
There's a song that has a lyrics, "Too much love will kill you"
For all the young generation out there, as well as to those that you've noticed that they've become sad, restless, and even depressed, please don't ever leave them alone. Since being alone can be the key for them to do something that they'll regret. Depression can easily fool a lot of people. A sample is with my nephew, it can fool you and act as if they're happy, but when you looked the other way they're all depressed already.
Let's not waste the life that God has given us. If you are depressed right now, please don't think of killing yourself, I know these might be worthless words to you, but even if there's a problem in your life right now, killing yourself isn't a solution at all.
May you rest in peace, my nephew.
Ricjohn Miranda Singson
1999-2018
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